
Navigating the world with a child on the autism spectrum brings unique joys and, let's be honest, unique challenges. If you're exploring options like in-home ABA (Applied Behaviour Analysis) therapy, you're likely looking for ways to help your child learn, grow, and thrive.
At Tellos, we believe in a compassionate approach to ABA therapy, one that puts your child's well-being and your family's needs at the heart of everything we do. And a cornerstone of this approach is something incredibly powerful: caregiver training.
Caregiver training isn't just an add-on to ABA therapy – it's absolutely essential for long-term success and a happier family life. You, as parents and caregivers, are with your child every single day. You are the constant in their lives, the people who know them best and love them unconditionally.

Why is parent training required for ABA therapy to be effective?
Parent training is not simply a suggestion; it is a clinical necessity mandated under best-practice standards in ABA. The hours a therapist spends with your child are just a piece of the puzzle; you are the constant in their learning environment. You can read more about how you are your child's greatest advocate in this process.
Consistency is Key
ABA relies on consistency. When everyone in the family uses similar strategies (reinforcement, prompting, responding to behaviour), it creates a predictable environment that helps your child understand expectations and learn more effectively.
Maximising Generalisation
The skills learned in a therapy session (like asking for a toy) must be used (generalised) in different settings (like the kitchen or the park) and with different people (parents, siblings, grandparents). Your involvement is key to making this happen.
Skill Maintenance
The skills you learn in caregiver training are tools you can use for years to come as your child grows and faces new challenges. You become your child's most knowledgeable and consistent support system.
What is the difference between an ABA therapist and a parent's role in the treatment plan?
The relationship between the therapist and the parent is a partnership, each with distinct but complementary roles necessary for success.
The ABA Therapist/Supervisor's Role:
- Primary Focus: Assessment, Goal Setting, Data Collection, Direct Skill Teaching.
- Expertise: Clinical knowledge of behavioural principles and learning theory.
- Goal: To teach and shape new skills and reduce challenging behaviours.
The Parent/Caregiver's Role:
- Primary Focus: Application of strategies in daily life, providing context and motivation.
- Expertise: Expertise on the child's history, unique personality, and preferences.
- Goal: To ensure the skills transfer out of therapy and into real-world scenarios.

How does caregiver training help with challenging behaviours at home?
Caregiver training gives you the framework to understand the "why" behind challenging behaviours, moving your focus from reaction to proactive support.
Understanding the Function
We will work together to understand what might be triggering certain behaviours (the antecedent) and what function (the reason) they serve for your child (e.g., getting attention, escaping a task).
Teaching Replacement Skills
Once the function is known, we will teach you how to proactively teach your child a functional communication skill to replace the challenging behaviour (e.g., teaching them to say "break" instead of crying to escape a task).
Effective Responding
We will teach you how to respond calmly and consistently when behaviours occur, avoiding the mistake of accidentally reinforcing the challenging behaviour. This leads to less stress and more peaceful moments at home.
What is "generalisation of skills" in ABA and how do parents achieve it?
Generalisation is the crucial process whereby a child uses a skill learned in one specific setting with one person and applies it successfully in new settings, with new people, and with new materials. It's making the skill stick and truly useful.
The Parent's Role
You bridge the gap between the therapy session and the real world. By practising the same skill in the kitchen, at the park, and with a grandparent, you ensure the child doesn't think the skill only works with the therapist.
Varying Conditions
We teach you to vary the instructions, the materials, and the rewards to make the skill more flexible. For example, asking for "juice" at home, then asking for "water" at a café.
Natural Reinforcement
We help you ensure that the natural consequences of the skill become the reward (e.g., getting to play with the toy after asking politely).
How long does ABA caregiver training usually last?
Caregiver training is not a fixed number of sessions; it is an ongoing, integrated part of your child's ABA program and continues throughout the treatment.
Continuous Process
Initially, training sessions might be more intensive to get you up to speed on the core principles and safety protocols. As therapy progresses, training becomes a natural component of every session as the therapist coaches you on new goals.
Goal-Driven
The duration depends on your family's goals and how quickly you feel confident using the strategies. Our goal is to empower you to feel capable and effective in supporting your child's needs.
Flexibility
At Tellos, we tailor training to your schedule, focusing on real-life strategies that fit into your daily routine.
Is parent training the same as family counselling?
No, they are distinct services with different goals and focuses. It is important to know the differences.
Caregiver Training Focus
Teaching specific, concrete skills to manage behaviour and foster development. This includes coaching, modelling, and practising techniques in the moment, using behavioural data. The goal is practical skill acquisition for parents to support their child's learning.
Family Counselling Focus
Addressing emotional dynamics, relationship issues, and coping with family stressors. This involves talk therapy, exploration of feelings, and improving communication patterns. The goal is emotional healing and improving the family's overall mental well-being.

Our Compassionate Approach to Training
At Tellos, we understand that every family is unique. Our caregiver training is:
Individualised
We tailor our training to your specific needs, your child's strengths and challenges, and your family's routines and goals.
Practical
We focus on teaching you real-life strategies that you can easily incorporate into your daily life. No complicated jargon or unrealistic expectations!
Supportive
Our therapists are there to guide you, answer your questions, and provide ongoing support for families as you learn and grow alongside your child.
If you're considering ABA therapy for your child, remember that caregiver training is a vital component that can significantly impact its success. It's an investment in your child's future and in the well-being of your entire family.
We believe that by working together, empowering you with knowledge and skills, we can help your child on the autism spectrum not just cope, but truly thrive.
Contact us today to learn more about how we can support your family.
People Also Ask Questions
- Why is parent training required for ABA therapy to be effective?
- How does caregiver training help with challenging behaviors at home?
- What is "generalization of skills" in ABA and how do parents achieve it?
- How long does ABA caregiver training usually last?
- What is the difference between an ABA therapist and a parent's role in the treatment plan?
- Is parent training the same as family counselling?


